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2026-05-29 16:31

Here’s a piece of advice for everyone: don’t rush into starting a relationship too quickly.
If you want to have a normal, healthy romance, don’t easily get the idea of “let’s give it a try” with someone just because of their looks. Take time to chat more, set a time to have dinner or watch a movie together, talk about each other’s lives, understand their preferences, and get to know the friends around them.
Rather than exchanging a few sweet nothings, making a few calls, and treating it like a race to get out of singlehood.

I hope everyone can take months, even years, to get to know and understand a person—rather than meeting someone this week and rushing to confirm the relationship next week. Everything can be hurried, but love alone should be taken slowly; taking it slow is sincerity.
If you truly want to be together, it has to mean something when, after hesitating several times, you can’t hold it back anymore and finally say it out loud—that unwavering liking for you no matter what, that’s real affection.

What I need isn’t him chasing me for a few days, or us chatting online for a while, and then he starts saying “I like you” or “I love you so much,” while in reality, I’m the only one facing everything, and he’s just paying lip service, offering no real help—or maybe the love I expect isn’t like this.
Perhaps one day we really meet, and after he gets to know the real me, he finds I’m not what he likes, but by then I’ve started depending on him, can’t live without him, and in the end, I’m the only one left feeling sad.

When it comes to relationships, don’t start one casually just because of momentary envy—love requires caution. You must see the people around you clearly; better to lack than settle for less.

Wishing you happiness.

2026-05-29 16:31